When life throws a curve ball at you, throw one back. So many obstacles, nothing is ever smooth sailing when it comes to living one’s life. More interesting to me is the relativity of our obstacles, a millionaire cannot compare the hardship of a shoeless orphan in a third world country, but that same orphan cannot fathom the turmoil of a trust fund heiress. We make our own obstacles, problems and torments. If we could see past our own harness that keeps us upon the known path, then could learn to enjoy the bumps of a country road. There is more to enjoy in finding a beautiful clearing on a difficult hike, than to see the same old S#$t eveyone else gets to experience.
Forget the problems, embrace them, overcome them, observe them, and learn to enjoy the challenge.